Resentment
“Holding anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.” Gautama Buddha Resentments arise from failed […]
Read MoreName it, Claim it, Tame it, Don’t Shame it
Do you know your dark side? Your destructive thoughts, feelings, and actions? Do you know your character vulnerabilities? If so, you’re a step ahead of those who don’t. Some people […]
Read MorePriority Number One
It is easy for life to get in the way of recovery. Yet without recovery, you have nothing else. The stresses and demands of work and family often crowd out […]
Read MoreAuthenticity and Recovery
What is authenticity and how does it impact upon recovery? Authenticity refers to genuineness. When you are authentic, you are allowing yourself to be you. Authentic people are like young children. […]
Read MoreChoosing Recovery
Becoming motivated for recovery involves three things: Sensitizing ourselves to the reality and pain of the illness of addiction, developing hope that recovery will be a better solution, and removing […]
Read MoreAddiction and Self-Love
Many people with addictions—and many people in general—have a part of themselves that wants to feel good and a part of themselves that does not like themselves. Trauma can make […]
Read MoreAddiction and Powerlessness
Many people have difficulty with the concept of powerlessness. By definition, addiction involves powerlessness over compulsions and cravings such that we behave destructively. It is true that we are powerless […]
Read MoreIs Addiction a Disease?
Addictions are some of the most common psychiatric illnesses, on par with depression and anxiety. As mental illnesses, they are indeed generally lifelong diseases, like diabetes, that for the most part […]
Read MoreAutonomy and Interdependence
We need each other to get by. From the day we are born to the day we die, we depend on each other for our survival and well-being. Yet we […]
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